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SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP
INCOMPATIBILITY UP FRONT Before you embark on a quest to find
your perfect match, it is useful to be honest with yourself about your faults,
quirks, and likes and dislikes.. If you have one or more failed
relationships in the past, you know what your faults and problems are...you've
been reminded of them many times by your former partner. The truth is you aren't likely to modify
your likes or dislikes just because you're in love. Actually most people hide their
true likes and dislikes during the first few weeks of infatuation then blow out and revert to
their normal selves. In initial encounters with members
of the opposite sex, or same sex as the case may be, folks tend to focus on what
they have in common and not on the other sides of them that are potential
relationship problems. Go to any internet dating site, and
there's very little emphasis on dislikes and issues. Most relationships start off focused
on the positive connections, then the rest of the relationship is spent hassling
over the non-positive elements until the point is reached where the couple
tolerates (usually grudgingly) the negatives, or the negatives finally outweigh
the positives and breakup occurs. An incredible amount of time and
energy is spent grappling with relational negativities. The smart thing to do is get them
out on the table early on in a blossoming relationship. But, this starts with you being honest
with yourself and your partner being honest with themselves right at the
beginning on a relationship that one hopes will last more than one night. Do
not read any further if all you are seeking is a one night stand. Remember, be
careful what you wish for...if the Deity doesn't like you She might grant your
prayer. Scientists at the General Delivery
University have concluded that is a good idea to exchange negativities very
early on (though after the first night in bed) and see how that looks. Negotiate
what is or is not going to be a deal-breaker right up front. Take the following Sexual
Relationship Incompatibility Test with your partner or would-be partner. Compare your
results. We guarantee a lot of interesting conversation will result. Find out where you really agree or disagree about
your sexual relationship. Each partner takes the test, and then you compare the
results. Unless we misunderstand such things, you both will resolve a lot of
potential issues between you real fast. SEXUAL INCOMPATIBILITY TEST Copyright 2006-2008 by Hugh A. Holub
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